All relationships have their ups and downs -
whether it be between parents and children, brothers and
sisters, in-laws or extended family - we assume that just because
we are somehow related, we should all get along wonderfully, with
no arguments, tension or differences!
Often, the reality is far from the
dream.
Children lose respect for their parents, parents
despair of their children, siblings argue, compete and grow apart.
As we grow up, we develop our own personalities, opinions,
behaviours, patterns and ideas. Families are tough!
Often we find a way to muddle through, plaster
over the cracks and struggle forward. Sometimes however we
find ourselves in a position that simply seems impossible to
resolve.
Whatever the challenges that are facing your
family, if you are determined to overcome them together, I am
here to help you to
Step back from any anger and
disappointment.
Understand why the tension or issue exists and
the role each family member is playing.
Learn how to really hear what each other is
saying, not what you think is being said.
Think about the best way to communicate,
compromise and respect each other to overcome any differences and
move forward in a positive manner.
